When you love someone it would make sense to try and make sure that you made an effort to preserve what it is that you had committed to. But a certain SN could not in any way understand the term loyalty, commitment or sharing. It is sad when a person draws another person into a relationship only to find that they have been used and then sent away. I have heard from many sources that relationships are work, and that in a real relationship when things get rough you talk about them you DO NOT throw the entire relationship out. But apparently she does not know such things and hence it is no wonder her love life has been a failure up until this point. She is one of those people that will use you for what life she can suck out of you and then when you are used up she will discard you like you never really had any meaning to her in the first place.
At what point do you realize that you are not capable of loving someone? Is it when you are afraid to commit to a relationship because you are scared of the outcome. Is it the point in which you are emailing your picture to other men with whom you are not in a relationship? Or perhaps is it when you expect all of the good things in a relationship but refuse to give equally what you receive?
Ignoring someone is not a way to show someone that you truly do care about them, withholding kisses because of some bullshit excuse that kisses share a special bond, or acting as if you care them but then seek out the first opportunity to bring a relationship to an end. These are all traits of the horrible person that NOBODY wants to date but yet even when I saw these kinds of traits emerging I was more than willing to forgive and work toward unity but I guess the sum of my efforts just was not good enough. So be aware of those that will use you for what you are worth and then get rid of you because of an inability to commit.
